Imitate Non Smokers

Here is a great post from the Smoking Cessation Blogs on about.com

From:
kallanjames (kallanjames)
To: JeffEverything

I've just completed a year off smokes - after 47 years of failing to stop. There are reasons why I succeeded - meeting a great lady for one - but the best tips I can pass on are:-

(a) Watch the non-smokers and imitate them. That's who you want to be like so start now. Be a non-smoker not an ex-smoker. You'll need lots of willpower to become an ex-smoker. You don't need any to become a non-smoker! Those non-smokers you are watching - do they need willpower to keep them of cigs? They don't experience any less stress in their lives other than that they do not feel sick and guilty everytime they light up. They do have more money in their pockets!!

(b) There'll be an internal battle raging between the heroic quitter "I need and want to stop smoking" and the cowardly saboteur "Go on, one more cig won't make that much difference" and "It's hopeless, I can never succeed in this". Decide now and forever which one is in charge. It is only your choice so make it.

(c) Carry a notebook and record each powerful crave. This way you'll still reach for your pocket but only for the book! Before you make that note ask yourself if the crave/urge is actually strong enough to bother writing it down. It's surprising how weak you'll think the urge is when looked at that way. you'll also benefit from the feeling that you are studying the crave and not directly experiencing it - it's all psychology but it's helpful!!

(d) You might start feeling pain in areas you don't expect it - you say you are young so you'll probably avoid most of this. If it does start - usually about a week in to a quit, a cigarette won't make it go away. you'll have to smoke all those you've missed in order to bring the poison levels back to their pre-quit status. For a younger person the nicotine withdrawal should be complete within 10 days - when you've had 40+ years smoking it's like each vital organ has its own addiction and the pains are strong and unrelenting for some time. You don't want to wait until you are that old do you?

(e) Get on this forum, write lots of messages, help others with all your newly gained wisdom - make it up if you have to. The very act of trying to support others will strengthen your own resolve.